Hey Chuck I was one of your sound guys in edmonton. I agree the way we talk to our children is very important and what we do for them. Also the way we talk to ourselves I believe determines in large where we end up in life. For me lately I've been going through some struggles in my marriage. The devil wants to bog you down with all the negative. But what i'm realizing is he has already been defeated and God has given us the victory. The battle is in the mind and the Holy Spirit is key in overcoming all of the devils attacks. The good news is I am listening to the Holy Spirit and am winning. I'm not a car. P.S. you told me to email you and let you know if I was making my girls proud. And I wanted you to know I am. I'm building my business for them. Jesse Nelson