Chuck, I love it. I have a 5 year old and an 8 year old and face the same arguments. My line has always been that "just because someone says it doesn't make it true." I like the you're a car much better. I just got a nasty email from my boss (he has not listend to CD's or read books,) and I can use the same technique for myself. I am not a car!! Thanks for sharing parts of you life with us. It helps. Lisa Cruse aka: Virgil's wife